A lot more often.
Seriously, that whole plan I had to raise my daughter to be a lady and polite is gone and has been replaced by a plan which involves a lot of "No." and "Do it yourself." and probably some, "Don't be such a pussy."
Because being nice and polite and thoughtful is a surefire way to get your ass handed back to you and not on silver platter - maybe with an attractive garnish of your ego and self esteem.
And so Internet, say goodbye to the kind Kristin of 1969 - 2007 and welcome, with trepidation, I might add, the go-fuck-yourself Kristin of 2008 and beyond.